“I don’t necessarily think that self -kids are a better person,” Jacob Skidmore, a young man who shares something like living with a personality disorder online.
The term “self” is often thrown naturally. Skidmore, diagnosed with three years ago, said Newsweek The motivation to be described in the media does not match his reality.
He has self -loving characteristics such as self -love characteristics, such as admiration, lack of empathy, and craving for carefully constructed appearance, but skiers emphasized that the expression of mental health disease is not always visible. This inspired to set up a social media account.ThenamelessnarcissistTo try and break the stigma.
Jacob Skidmore
The 25 -year -old boy said Newsweek: “When I was diagnosed, I began to study disability and almost always found an article that had always got action, but my motivation was always turned off.
“The biggest example is that people are the ideas about how their owners of the victims are ‘goal’. The story never applied to me. It made it frustrating and misunderstood.
“Do not understand me wrong. I rely on external verification to keep myself. But I will respect me because I didn’t find anyone to find anyone in a relationship. Honestly, the relationship usually feels like too many things. People look forward to too much from me, and I just want to do my own work.”
I am having difficulty with intimacy
During the zoom interview NewsweekSkidmore from Ohio has opened up a problem in his life. He emphasized that the relationship is “too much” and often discovered that he stays away from his romantic partner.
“Vulnerability often feels threat to me. Or I start to feel as if I have lost autonomy,” he said, “he said.
In that sense, he acknowledges his greatness as “feeding” the psychological profile described in the media.
“I am a kind of fact. Yes. It’s true. But especially I have to tell myself that manipulation is not difficult for anyone. What is the willingness to change the change?” He said.
According to the American Psychiatric Association, mental health affects about 1-2 %of the US population.
His early memories
Jacob Skidmore
At the age of 10, Skidmore is in a funeral and recalls why everyone is so angry. He concluded that they had to cry or be careful. While riding home, he thought he could be different.
In his teens, he said, “I always found a reason to be angry and I often thought I was higher than others.” At the age of 16, his first therapist mentioned the word “self -child”, but he was not officially diagnosed with the fourth therapist between 19 and 22 years old.
“There is a problem here. When this state is in a state, it causes a lot of problems in your life. I suffered a lot of pain because of it, and one of my lowest points in my life was diagnosed, and after I was diagnosed, I started going online to better understand my condition.”
But he could not fully resonate the articles he read online.
Today, he has more than 233,000 followers and often shares clips that emphasize the signs and symptoms of their children.
‘Big misunderstanding’
According to today’s psychology, their children are attracted to the following characteristics.
- Responsibility for others
- Reject or sacrifice one’s own emotional needs
- Very sympathy
- Complex pride
- It is easy to feel guilty
- Promote the image they want to project
When Skidmore asked about the romantic partner he was looking for, he said, “I think there are many misunderstandings that many people have.
“I can feel the threat of those who recognize that I am superior, but if there is a problem, if I think I’m a smaller person than me, what do it say about me? It suggests that I am at its own level. So by the association it reflects me.
“So I tend to be attracted to those who see higher statuses. In any way, ‘better’ people have their own problems than me. The moment I do so, I start to feel threat and conflict.
“On the other hand, if I see someone truly inferior, I can tolerate them with them, but I won’t be out of the way to spend time with them.
“This way of thinking has caused a lot of problems for me. Especially when we talk about self -love personality disorders we tend to focus on action. But this is a big part of the internal calculation.”
I try to understand myself
Last month, SKIDMORE collected 33,500 views in Tiktok how his brain worked. In a clip titled, “The diagnostic self -assistant rationalizes the pathological thinking in real time,” he calls his own thought, “Sometimes it’s funny.”
He says, for example: “How do you love myself and hate myself at the same time? I do not love myself and are better than others.”
He points out that he is better because he does not depend on anyone.
One user said, “This seems to be tired.
Skidmore said Newsweek The life is a bit more complicated these days.
“I always know that there is a reality about things that do not match my perception, but I am clear that the world is working in a certain way. I feel like there are people who are better than others and fewer people.
“I know that it is a pathological thinking, but I don’t feel good about myself unless I think it’s better than everyone in my life.
“This causes fluctuations. The big problem of my condition is not to always feel superior, but to swing while feeling superior to everyone or being fully worthless in a given moment. There is little medium basis.
He explained that he is trying to manage it in a healthier way.
He said:
Skidmore explained that his lack of empathy was sometimes helpful when people had to ventilate.
“I’m trying to use the way of thinking to make better actions,” he said. “I am not overwhelmed by the feelings of others, so I am a person who listens well.”
