meT is a co-writer Jack Thorne, Stephen Graham and Philip Barantini for Netflix Four-Part mini-series. adolescence It is remotely seen by chance. It starts with a title, a solitary umbrella term The most powerful transition period of our lives. In particular, it is time to conflict with a strong hope that the desire to distinguish and individualize from parents will be understood by them and the world.
The series starred Owen Cooper, a 13 -year -old Jamie Miller, arrested and accused of murdering another teenager, Katie. He actively denies the police, his family, lawyers, and independent psychiatrists evaluating him. Almost immediately immediately we see all resource shortcomings (as an exception) that do our best to do our best to deal with teenagers in extreme situations.
Writing is exception. Jamie’s name is freely scattered to him all the addresses, and the clear politeness and secret tension of adults feel that they are familiar to those who have received policies or social welfare services.
Jamie’s family, especially Stephen Graham, played in Peak Power, his father, Eddie’s heartbreaking pain, does not leave our thoughts over four parts. The victim, Katie, not only did Jamie a cruel behavior, but also focuses on the reason why he can continue to trust “wrong.”
As a psychoanalyst, as Dr. Margot Waddell, in her essential book Adolescence: Internal Story (2018), all stages of the transition stage “Instability, loss, change, uncertainty, unknown, from familiar and relatively safe to foreign and threatening”. And this is probably no longer true than the transition to adolescence.
Waddell was writing when the power of the Internet, which affected youth, was already considered, but before the rise of unbelief and INCEL culture, we now have a great traction of ideology, distrust and hatred against women.
This is the core adolescence. In an interview, Graham said that reading about the murder of teenage girls by teenage boys was “injured.” He and Thorne wanted not to refer to the fingers of criticism to general suspects such as alcoholic addicts, insulting, physical or sexually abused dads, and shared their responsibilities to co -responsibilities and to lead us to joint responsibilities, family, school, society, community, and environment.
Graham believes that if parents want to protect their children from seeing inappropriate content on television, they can be sent to the room with a safe and specific knowledge that the approach to social and cultural impacts will inevitably be narrowed. The opposite is true these days. He says: “Now when young people and girls go to the bedroom, they have the world at the tip of their fingers. We are parents, but there is no idea of a profound impact on our children. We are responsible.” In terms of psychological maturity, adolescents are worried about how others recognize us, and they are distorted through the comic book social media lens, confusing, and sometimes irresponsible.
It is one of the main pivotal points adolescence It’s time for us to explain the nuances of emoticons in social media posts to adults. The gap between what we understand as an adult and what happens in the youth world is perfectly pointed out. The context of this series is the toxicity of manosphere, but it is only adults to explicitly refer to Andrew Tate. He is not interested in these children. yet.
Everyone who works in the psychotherapy world in the whole series has an infinite topic. In episode 3, it is one of the strongest of the four. In this Jamie, Jamie interviews with independent spirit and evaluator Erin Doherty. It is a difficult watch.
It is clear that Waddell calls “a lost childhood and an unlimited adult”. The feelings of Jamie, which are too described by Cooper, includes embarrassment, conflict, hope, desire and challenges. He is a very “clever young man” and fun that he is afraid of “trapped” by the outstanding intelligence and experience of a psychiatrist.
Despite the example of human elasticity, potential reconciliation and hope, ‘adolescence’ has a very uncomfortable mirror of the current social cohesion and community.
His embarrassment is difficult to express only through destructive actions and words. His view of women and girls is not only gained from his family experience, but also absorbed through the evil lens on the Internet.
In recent years, consulting rooms are probably more likely to testify to the sexual qualifications of young people than ever before. Sometimes men are the terms that reject women and girls. In this case, there is often a shadow of confusion that leads to anger due to the conflict with expectations caused by porn and social media.
More often, what I can see in my own practice is a young woman. They can be presented as sexually liberated, but their world accepts raw materials, twisting and sexual liquidity, and they are embarrassed and sometimes afraid of men who play a reasonable dominant role in sex. Sleeping, piercing hair, and an unwanted experience of strangers has been a much more common dissatisfaction.
~ Inside adolescenceWe still saw Jamie, who is still leaving the interview, and the psychiatrist left a feeling of all his evacuation, frustration, disappointment and shame. I think most therapists will be seriously related to this scene. We may not have worked with child murderers, but many people will come into contact with murder feelings that customers want to be treated regularly. When I watched, I felt a lot of nausea, sweaty and despair.
author adolescence Although the boys have an answer to the reason for killing a woman, this work is carefully dealt with in the struggle of teenagers, social workers, religious leaders, counselors and caregivers who are involved in harmful behaviors such as sharing sexual photographs without consent. Everyday expression of gender stereotypes “You have a girl hit by a girl.
Another element professional through the story is a generational impact of exploration, expression or understanding of Jamie’s father’s anger, which Jamie’s mother manages every day. It did not start with Eddie, but we heard that we had a regular “belt hit with him.” Male customers with shoes or physically abused fathers often talk about treatment that they don’t want to be like dad, but they are difficult to avoid.
Male sexual disappointment, frustration or shame can be difficult to express. We see the way to get angry in an interview with Jamie’s psychiatrist. Eddie’s wife and daughter, who played well with Christine Tremarco and Amelie Pease, can not make a decision to episode 4 while pushing fear and anxiety to manage and run the unhealthy feelings of Eddie.
At the beginning of the drama, it is the patriarchal Eddie that Jamie is a responsible adult at the police station. Instead, his mother’s suggestion of standing is wiped off. Jamie’s intense confusion, rejection and shame seems to have been strengthened by the existence of the father. Would the victim’s family, friends and Miller family had a lot of sadness if his mother had a shocking CCTV movie for the first time in the interview room? Perhaps his mother was able to shorten his destructive figures and rejection.
Despite the example of human elasticity, potential reconciliation and hope adolescence We have a very uncomfortable mirror for our current social cohesion and community. We are almost rich, timely, and essential. Thorne and Graham have already talked about screening dramas at schools that are already like the next stage. As soon as the child starts school, a sense of privacy begins. To learn what parents are equally and feared. It is difficult to correct the balance.
From the point of view of the consulting room, we will be welcomed for more open dialogue and especially sexual intercourse than parents, caregivers, teachers, and children. As a society, if we can find more ways to learn more about sex and relationships, we can broadcast and explore difficult emotions rather than reading it. Tragic results can be avoided.
This article was first published Therapist’s matching platform well Camilla Nichols is a psychotherapist.
